Dating man with child
Wasn’t I the same person who vowed to never date a man with a child? There are other men who are single, childless and worth getting to know. I was up for the challenge, and decided to give it shot.
Alas, I admit, those were my exact words, but those words were also spoken by a much younger and not so much wiser version of myself. Obviously, there are several issues to deal with when someone has a child. Do you think you’ll get jealous when you have to share him, and can’t throw a tantrum because you’ll ‘look bad’ for being jealous of a child? trying to pacify the mother so his relationship with his child isn’t affected, and keeping his ‘woman’ comfortable.
I sat with my closest girlfriends on our routine girls’ night out (GNO) one Saturday evening, the suspense at the table didn’t go unnoticed.
Prior to our meeting, I had mentioned that I had some news to share.
He is absolutely in love with his child, and that makes him even more attractive to me. While we look for stability in relationships, dating someone who has a child shouldn’t pose a threat.
Seeing a man love and care for his child genuinely is a beautiful thing. It’s all about building that relationship on the basics, as you would any other, with love, trust, understanding, and commitment, among other things.
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As the words tumbled from my mouth, all three gave me ‘the look’.
I knew exactly what they were thinking, as I spoke about my newfound love interest, and him bussing the file that he had a kid.
About Jolisa Brewster Jolisa Brewster is a south girl, who is still adapting to her adopted town life.
She loves to talk as much as much as she loves to write, and is currently pursuing a degree in media and communications. When she isn't talking her family to death, you can find her eating her way around Trinidad and writing about it. Twitter • Jolisa Brewster is a south girl, who is still adapting to her adopted town life.